complain complain!
Lately I've noticed that everyone is complaining on their blogs. They have been expressing things that have been bothering them, things that have been getting them down, and sometimes just vague feelings of unhappyness. Really, things are a mess under the serface in wonderland.
People have problems - thats life.
What I don't understand is some of the responses that these blogs. In some cases, people are giving advice, or taking a hardline aproach and telling the individual in question what is what. I have no problem with this at all, infact I think it is necessary in some situations. What I do have a problem with, what I am seething about right now, is the snide comments about complaints and complainers. Complaint is a very important thing to being alive. It is a way of getting your problems out in the open where you can look at them, and where you can have others look at them too if you really need it (and sometimes if you don't).
When it comes to something like these blogs, it's very easy to atack a complaint. You can't see the person's face when your doing it. I just think people need to think before they respond to a post where someone is unloading. Sometimes it's a very important thing, and the wrong comment belittles that confidence.
I mean, if I told everyone who complained in my presence to go suck a dick, what would they think of me? They'ed probly call me Hacket ;)
